Bollywood Nostalgia

The abusive relationship between Aditya Panscholi and Kangana Ranaut

Both Kangana Ranaut and Aditya Panscholi describe this episode as the darkest days of their lives.

While Kangana has told her friends that she has learnt to move on after making a horrible mistake at the age of 18 (that’s the age that was mentioned then), Aditya Panscholi  says that he has lost money and faith after he broke off with Kangana.

Till date, Kangana –Aditya’s affair and messy break-up remains as one of the ugliest scandals Bollywood has ever seen.

While there’s no doubt that Aditya was instrumental in bringing Kangana to Bollywood, the latter has endured much public shame in the way he abused and accused her of usurping his money.

So, here is how the story unfolded, much of which has been taken from Panscholi’s published version of an interview that he gave after the two had broken off. Kangana has not contested these facts till date.

Kangana Ranaut and Aditya Panscholi at a film awards function in 2007

Their first meeting

Date: June 27, 2004, Place: Juhu-Tara Road, Juhu, Mumbai Time: 3.30 pm\

It was a rainy day in Mumbai. Aditya Panscholi was sitting in his car on one side of the road. He was supervising the construction of the building for a friend who had gone to Dubai for some work. It was raining so heavily that the road was empty. The downpour prevented the actor from stepping out of his car. With one of the car doors open, his eyes began wandering off out of boredom. He wondered if passersby had recognised him.

On the other side of the road, a thin and fair girl was sitting on a bike under a roof of a shop. She was drenched. They both seemed to have emerged from the nearby Asha Chandra Acting Institute and were stuck in the rains. It was the guy who spotted Aditya sitting inside the car and nudged the girl to look at him.

Minutes later, the girl walked out from the shade, crossed the road and stood in front of Aditya. She said, “Hi, I am Kangana. I want to talk to you.”

Aditya looked at the girl. Pale looking, the toll of struggle was beginning to show on her face. That day, they just exchanged phone numbers. But the pale face and the attractive eyes remained with Aditya.

The ‘love’ story begins

It started with a phone call – a phone call from a struggler, who was a very beautiful woman. There was no way that Aditya could have ignored the call. Aditya says that Kangana kept calling him and pleaded if she could meet him again. Aditya didn’t agree at first, but later relented as he was as keen to meet her again. They met at a coffee shop at Khar and the meetings never stopped after that.

Within a month, Kangana had shifted from the PG accommodation that she was staying to a fairly large flat in Andheri that belonged to Aditya’s friend. Within 15 days, Aditya left his wife and children and moved in with Kangana. That is when the film industry became aware of Kangana as the latest girl in Aditya’s life.

Aditya’s wife, Zarina Wahab called up her friends to confirm as Aditya stopped coming home and soon realised that she had lost her husband to Kangana. She told her friends that she wouldn’t react to it.  She took the incident rather stoically saying that she has turned old and Aditya needed a new girl in his life. This encouraged the relationship to grow further. By now, it was 2005.

The networking starts

Aditya started to introduce Kangana to filmmakers and took her out to filmi parties. Though she didn’t bag any significant project then, but Aditya painted the town red with her. Everybody in the industry seemed to know about Kangana by then. Aditya starts looking for an apartment where he and Kangana could move in together. Kangana starts getting projects and filmmakers finally start opening dialogues with her.

It was during this time when Anurag Basu offered her the role of Simran in Gangster. Though it is said that Kangana pictures were passed around by Aditya, Kangana had said in an interview that Basu spotted her in a cafe.

Whatever it was, Kangana clinched her first Bollywood film, which turned to be her big break! A year passed by when Kangana started shooting for the film while still living in with Aditya.

Kangana and Aditya

Kangana Ranaut and Aditya Panscholi attending a Bollywood party together. Date: Last quarter of 2006.

Things start going wrong

Date: October 5 2006, Place Rispana Colony, Dehradun, Time: 10.30 am

A perverted guy throws acid on Rangoli, Kangana’s sister who was staying in Dehradun. Her sister is saved by a whisker and Aditya swings into action.

This was the first acid attack in Dehradun’s history.

Aditya rushed to Dehradun and gets the guy arrested. He also arranges for Rangoli’s treatment and later shifts her to Mumbai. Aditya tells Kangana that he will foot the bills of her surgery. But it was from this point that Kangana’s relationship with Aditya started hitting a rocky patch. They started fighting frequently. Aditya used to get jealous because Kangana was increasingly coming close to other stars in the industry.

In Aditya’s own words, there was once a violent fight with her when she had returned from a schedule in South Africa. Kangana was  shooting for a film titled Shaka Laka Boom Boom.

Aditya admitted that he hit her. From here on, it was just a matter of time before they would break up and on a violent note.

Before we go further and tell you about that violent incident, here is a song from Gangster that made Kangana a star overnight. Actually, it was this song that changed the course of her carer for ever. She never had to look back after this song’s promo was released on television. The article continues after this video.

The middle-of-the-road violence and two back-to-back police complaints 

Date: May 5, 2007, Place: Andheri, Time: 11 pm

The fights had reached such a proportion that Kangana moved out of the house. It was not clear where she was staying. Aditya had become too possessive and Kangana wanted to break free from him. Besides, Gangster had also made her a star by now. But nothing prepared Kangana with what was coming next.

Aditya relentlessly chased Kangana when she tried to break free from. He wasn’t able to digest the fact that Kangana was dumping him and kept calling her on her mobile. It was during one of these calls that ended up with both abusing each other.

Kangana was at a party and Aditya decided to come there and confront her. Kangana somehow sensed it and beat a hasty retreat from the party.

She called an auto-rickshaw to go and hide at a friend’s place just to escape from Aditya’s clutches.

But Aditya chased her in his car, stopped the auto-rickshaw in the middle of the road and forced her out the rickshaw.

Kangana was slapped and abused in the middle of the road for almost half an hour before Aditya sped off.

A harried Kangana called up Additional Commissioner of Police (West) Bipin Bihari. Bipin didn’t pick up the call. He, however, replied to her text messages and advised her to go to the nearby police station and lodge a complaint.

Kangana went to the Versova police station and lodged a complaint against him.

Aditya, the very next day, lodged a counter complaint.

Both the complaints were filed and probed by then police inspector of Versova Police Station, Mohan Shanke.

What followed was a media circus and an end of a love story that was never meant to be.

So, this is how Aditya Panscholi became media’s favourite bad boy. And he continues to be one.



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5 replies »



      When you make certain choices based on your liking than fine but you have to live with you consequences.. It will be less than useful to look for scapegoat to pass the blame.. Now with that said it does not lessen any criminality involved, if at all.

      In this case, Both were mature enough to enter into relationship.. Jiah Khan chose to live with the boy and have physical relationship without understanding final results. Its called “consensual Relationship/Sex”.. She than choose to agree for an abortion than why not end the relationship at that point? Now if it does not work out as you wanted it to than cant blame the other for deceiving you.. For a second if you reverse the scenario, what if boy was to suffer the cheating by Jiah and he had committed suicide than would you hold her in Jail? No, not at all.. rightfully, he would be called as too coward and mentally weak..!! So why should Jiah khan be treated any different??

      Mental issues leading to any weakness or Suicide are gender free and shall remain as such. As much as we feel for when person dies tragic death but in the end we should never loose sight of objectivity when making any statements…

      Jiah Khans Mother needs to relax and let it go.. Do not look to others to blame for your loss!!


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